You have to bring value to the table if you want anyone to respect you or spend time with you.
A good starting point for awareness is to find a way to rack up a lot of dates.
Seemingly nice dudes in quite esteemed careers asking to hook up in 24 hours and sending them naked pics of myself despite multiple times telling them that I didn’t want to.” As a male coach for smart, strong, successful women, I apologize on behalf of all men. But they really don’t get what it’s like to walk a mile in your shoes.
I wrote about this in Finding the One Online extensively – what it’s like to be a woman dating online and how men need to up their games to connect.
Get a lot of experience under your belt and learn how to become more sensitive to female communication and underlying meanings.
When you do find that really special girl, you won’t miss the opportunities she presents to you.
Says the original author: “I would be lying if I said it didn’t get to me.
Guys would become hostile when I told them I wasn’t interested in NSA sex, or guys that had started normal and nice quickly turned the conversation into something explicitly sexual in nature.He may might call her too frequently, not give her breathing room or be overly aggressive.He doesn’t know when and how to act in order to move things forward in a smooth way.Hell, I just gave a TEDx talk about this very thing.Men scramble to approach women like rats chewing on a meaty chicken bone, and then wonder why women are so turned off by them.He just knows he wants to feel good, so he keeps pushing.There are so many things you can do to come from a non-needy mentality.When he doesn’t get the girl, he judges himself and generally feels bad about himself and who he is.He also will spend hours of his time needlessly replaying the same negative thoughts in his head.I’m not trying to say what he experienced isn’t true, but bots and scammers are plentiful on dating sites, to the extent that any reasonably intelligent person can smell them as fakes. It’s a simple question, but the answer needs a little bit more explanation. Mentality is the first difference and awareness is the second.