"Jack—a married colleague I have a little crush on—walked in and sensed my panic.He said, ' Don't worry, the horses are here for your pleasure.' He helped me mount a big stallion.As he moves in for the kiss, you slowly open your eyes, only to discover that he's... You sit bolt upright, sweating, relieved, yet strangely aroused. Instead of writing off these reveries as a side effect of spicy Indian food, tune in to them.
Before I knew it we were kissing and caressing each other.A man you're wildly attracted to pulls you to him and gently caresses your back.He's so close, you can feel his hot breath on your face. Most of us have had erotic dreams, which can run the gamut from sexy and intriguing to just plain bizarre.Being nuzzled by one hints that you enjoy taking a sexually passive role."I'm in the airport waiting for my flight, and a man sits next to me and starts chatting," says Dina, 29, a writer."The next thing I know, he pulls me to him and we start making out. The funniest thing was that I never even saw the guy's face."The expert analysis This is a sex dream that's probably not about sex.As Jack walked the horse around the yard, the saddle was stimulating me, and I started to say things like, ' This feels so good, don't stop.' I was completely embarrassed that I was saying sexual things, but Jack didn't seem to care."The expert analysis Whoa, Nellie!Leslie is likely feeling guilty about her growing attraction to Jack.D., professor of psychology at Marylhurst University in Portland, Oregon. Erotic dreams can mean many things, depending on the dreamer and her life circumstances."They also allow us to explore options we haven't tried or even thought of."So does that mean that dreaming of having sex with your mailman is a sign you harbor secret feelings for him? In some cases, dreams involving sex aren't actually about sex at all. If a specific interpretation is accurate, it will resonate with you and make a certain kind of sense.It could be that you're trying to figure out what you want in a lover (or in yourself)."I dreamed I went to a coffee shop and ordered a cappuccino," says Jan, a divorced 37-year-old hospital technician."While I waited I noticed brilliant sunshine streaming through the windows.