It also makes it harder to break up with them when the time comes because we have bonded prematurely.I have found that dating someone for me is extremely- EXTREMELY!I even brave new groups and do numerous things with others I dont know just by myself and find that after a while I hate being alone.However, I dated a very outgoing young guy who often accused me of not having enough friends for a 25 year old, and this really hurt me. this is who I am, and I am ok to watch a DVD by myself, or prefer to hang out with very close family members or friends instead of goofing off somewhere.. We could never connect on that deeper spiritual level because of this.Choose a mate who you can just sit and be quiet with, who truly, truly understands who you are and does not view your character as a loner, or as antisocial.I really am not antisocial and love hanging out with those I love.
Likewise, they may inappropriately try to comfort their partners using logic instead of love or support.
- draining because I am constantly wondering about my future, who they are, where we are in the relationship, what he expects of me, what I expect of him, etc.
But my caution to all INFPs is to be careful when choosing a mate, or when choosing friends as well.
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As an INFP, I have learned to be extremely careful who I date.