I wouldn’t want to live anywhere else in the state.
The UNC LGBTQ center holds a Q Group every Monday during the school year to offer peer support and talk about anything related to sexual orientation/gender identity and gender expression.
They also host lots of events, like their Friday Night Wine Tastings and their “Jazz and More Brunch” every Sunday from May to October on the lawn.
If that’s just too much guess work for you though, I’d say head to some of the larger gay clubs in Raleigh or Durham.
They’re not too far away and you’re likely to find more gay women there.
If you’re into sports, we have (in my humble opinion) the best basketball program in the nation, with alumni like Michael Jordan, Jerry Stackhouse, Rasheed Wallace and Vince Carter. I’m not going to lie to you, all of these events are heavily male and all the gay boys bring their straight female friends, so it’s hard to tell if any of the women are actually queer.
We also we just had Obama and Jimmy Fallon come visit, so we’re kind of a big deal. If you want my opinion though, I’d say to just hit on everything that moves.