After that realize that this is a free dating site.There will be a certain amount of idiots and players.
I have been through it once with somebody and a few of the ladies that I have emailed with on here havent been honest about weight...That first line in all caps is kinda insulting and abrasive. Why don't you have a normal picture so we can see what you look like.How would you feel if we met at random on the street and the first words out of my mouth were "IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH BLACK PEOPLE THAT IS YOUR PROBLEM NOT MINE. Show your sense of humor and let us know what you are like.and last but not least..whining, guys dont like that.... Your graduation and myspace headshot might not give the right message as to what they think is curvy.I really and truly don't mean to sound rude but guys don't advertise themselves as being curvy.Be honest and as real as you would want a man to be with you.Check "a few extra pounds" and stop typing with all caps when you are b!Anyway, I would recommend that you took some better photos of yourself that showed off your figure; curves as you say, and try to be a little more courteous in your profile, and a whole lot less bitter and confrontational. personally I have a preferencefor other physical types; but that's me; plenty of guys who'll like you as you are!Grandpa used to say, "you'll catch a lot more flies with honey than you will with vinegar"!! I don't care what anyone says but looks are the initial attractor. One the attraction is there a short conversation usually takes place, if both parties are interested it's time to get together for a fun, relaxed meeting.If you notice, the women in commercials and magazines all are pretty similar. You sound more "fluffy" then just curvy if you have another 30 lbs to drop Sugar. Cowboy I know LOTS of guys who date ONLY "curvy" women.That's what they're marketing to us at an early age, and unfortunately for you and a lot of women, that's what a lot of guys are buying. Thats not curvy in the right places to me anyway and you say your "average" for body type on your profile.... If your needing to drop 30 lbs then your at LEAST a few lbs over. And some of these guys are what you might call average or even atheletic builds.