I hope one day I can pass down those qualities to a family of my own, and it’s why I work so hard today.I fully don’t expect you to message me, I guess if I was getting 20 or 30 messages a day from people I wouldn’t have to.If I contact you, I appreciate you taking the time to read this and would love to get to know you more because most people don’t get this far. I can’t guarantee you that we already have a lot in common – but if you read on and find out we do – you should message me!I want someone who will be upfront, honest, and I will do the same.You should have a “genuine smile” in your picture, one that crinkles up your eyes. It’s good if you can get a shot of you in the center of a group of people (because, Power), better if you’re a man to have a few women smiling adoringly at you (because, Desire), and best if you’re shown touching another person, but not being touched, because apparently the toucher is perceived to be of a higher status.Your Headline First and foremost, be honest, but not brutal in your self-assessment.
Liars “look as if they are thinking hard for no good reason and to converse in a strangely impersonal tone.”The perfect description falls in a ratio of what you are like to what you want.I love to [activity] and spend time hanging out with friends.I’m an easy going person and try to stay clear of any drama.The researchers suggest the boring but supposedly effective, “Genuine, attractive, outgoing, professional female, good sense of humor, into keeping fit, socializing, music and travel, seeks like-minded, good-natured guy to share quality times.”In general, the research shows online daters steer gender stereotypical. Women like bravery, courage and risk-taking more than kindness and altruism. The six-page study goes on to offer a practical how-to for online daters including nuggets like: don’t just wink or send a generic message; keep the first missive short and sweet; be enthusiastic; and don’t keep an online paramour waiting. But consider, singles, while strict guidelines are sure to be a comfort for some in the online dating pool, love is not an exact science—and even stone-cold science needs its skeptics.Good Generic Example #1 Let’s face it, I don’t live the life of a rock-star or famous athlete …Several measures of success, like educational achievement and income, are associated with names that start earlier in the alphabet, according to the study.And tipping the scale ever-so-slightly on the creepy side, similarity breeds affection, so a user named “Hot4YOU” would be more likely to respond to someone with the related handle “Burning4YOU”.Unfortunately real, honest guys like me often get passed over because we don’t stand out among the hundreds on here trying to find a date by auto-blasting e-mails they have stored up on a hard drive.But if you’re one of the few that are reading this to actually meet someone you like, here are some of the things that make me unique; [Activity] [Activity] [Sport] [Job] [An example of you doing something for someone else] [Goal In Life] That’s me in a nutshell.Today, new research published in the BMJ’s journal, Evidence Based Medicine, adds to that glittering pantheon.Scientists from Barts, the London School of Medicine, and The University of North Texas have discovered the secret to the perfect online dating profile.